"WTF!! What just happened? What is going on! (insert stunned disbelief here) OK...soooo....

I have cancer. What can  'I' do??" Perhaps begin by allowing a little time to process this big news... 

pause, breathe, shift.

Remember to breathe, and keep on keepin' on. Waiting is your now your new pastime...sigh...blah.

Do something fun! How about a photo shoot, or a dentist appointment...haha ok that one's not so fun, but a good idea none the less. Attend Chemo teach, sign up for Relaxation Therapy and a Look Good, Feel Better workshop. Perhaps attend a retreat or book a face-to-face, here.

chemotherapy, radiation, scans and yes MORE lab work.

"THIS is not what MY breasts looked like, but...I will get used to them." They're new, give them time. The swelling will go down and there's some shifting that needs to occur 

learning to fall in love with your new shape. The changes may cause you to move differently, your center of gravity may have shifted, or you have the feeling that something is MIA. How about exercises, sexuality, support (as in the "boulder-holder" kind), and yes, the regular emotional kind too!

when your boob goes bust, expedited explant...wait, whats an explant?

everything you expected?

a new silhouette, new sensitivities,